I recently ran into an old friend who had one of those gastric bypass surgeries...
You know the one, where they shrink your stomach so you supposedly eat less and lose weight.
Well.... the surgery did not take.
Or work
Or whatever they call it.
He was fatter than ever. Weighing more than he did before the surgery.
How could that be?
After investing $23 Thousand I would hope to be.... at least... well... lighter.
My friend missed one, and only one important belief about being thinner/lighter.
A positive Self Image
In Psycho Cybernetics, Maltz says our imaginations are stronger than we estimate them to be. Maltz points out our brain cannot differentiate between imagination and reality. Whatever blueprint we supply it with (via our thoughts and beliefs), it creates a reality exactly as that blueprint.
When we imagine ourselves as incapable of being successful (or thinner) or as persons who are always going to be unhappy, we become that. Instead, if we create a strong positive image of ourselves in our mind (
positive self-image), we become that flourishing winner.
But just imagining will not in and of itself, take you any closer to your goal.
You need a plan.
A roadmap
A blueprint
Goal setting and achievement is a fantastic skill to develop, how to design your own future. A life best lived is a life by design, not by accident.
It used to be hard for me to complete tasks, talk to employees, or manage my calendar. That is until I mastered goal setting, task lists and time management.
Mastering these things has:
- allowed me to own four different businesses.
- enjoy time with my family
- pursue my hobbies
- take time off
- create income I only dreamed about 10 years ago.
You have a 99% chance of failure if you are going to make New Year's resolutions for 2022
Horrible, isn't it?
Most New Year resolutions fail.
- Lose weight
- Join a gym
- Work less
- Relax more
- reduce alcohol
- increase alcohol consumption (ok, maybe you would succeed at that one)
These are all just wishful thinking. You say you are committed, but that commitment will wane by the 3rd week in January.
I will let you off the hook for your past failures.
You see, humans are not wired to stick with anything. It takes between 28 and 84 days to lose a bad habit and create a good one in its' place.
I got a great email the other day from my mentor, Darren Hardy. He said You need THREE THINGS to succeed with your goals:
1- EXTERNAL FORCE. Newton's first law taught us: We will remain at rest unless compelled to change by the action of an external force. This is why people hire personal trainers, coaches, tutors, counselors, and therapists. You need an outside force to break your inertia. Our natural tendency of excuses and procrastination will persist without that force (No not the Jedi Force....).
2- A SYSTEM. A proven, step-by-step system to make the big & complicated, simple & easy - if you just follow. You want to remove decision making and the need for discipline from the process.
3- ASSOCIATIONS. A group of like-mind & like-ambition allies going in the same direction to spur you on & hold you accountable.
Today is your lucky day!
I am offering you a chance at almost guaranteed success in 2022, by providing all three of Darrin's success criteria:
- External Force: Me
- A system: I DARE YOU 2022: Goal IMPLEMENTATION, Achievement and Marketing Planning.
- Associations: My Inner Circle of super smart entrepreneurs or my elite Alliance and Masters Council members
This is my proven system, broken down into individual steps for you to follow.
You can't screw this up. Follow the system and you will have your best year ever; in business and in life.
The end of the year is close. Don't enter it without a concrete plan for success.
But don't dilly dally, this Mouster Class goes into the DSNi vault at midnight on 1/5/22.
Get it here:
12 Days Goal Setting